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This is Perhaps the Best Mindset to Approach Dating with These Days
I see a lot of jaded, bitter women that have given up on finding a meaningful relationship, giving into the lie that is ‘playing the game’. The truth is, ‘playing the game’ will only leave you exhausted and unfulfilled.
I recently wrote a blog about the last person I tried to date and the ghosting experience it led to. And I wanted to write about my approach to dating this person that was crucial to me coming out of this ordeal better than when it started. I also think it’s extremely important to share this, because there are plenty of women that I believe need help in this area of their lives. And to me, that is approaching dating with the best of intentions, keeping in mind that you’re not responsible for the words and actions of the other person.
Prior to dating ‘Luke’, I had a serious conversation with myself about the type of dating experience I wanted to have. And my reality is that I prefer the more traditional dating ways. I like speaking to one person at a time, a.k.a being exclusive. And I have learned through many life experiences prior, that if something is important to me I need to communicate it right away so there are no misunderstandings…
